Turning failures into new unimaginable success-stories…

For failure is never an end but a beginning of promising tomorrow.

"Every test in our life makes us bitter or better, every problem comes to break us or make us.The choice is ours, whether to become a Victim or a Victor!"

Between vast number of books, theories, plans & re-plans on 'how to succeed' lies our story crushed in a mess where success seems impossible to attain and failure gripping to overhaul. Eventually everything from theory to master-plan comes to a point where nothing except failure seems working to cling us. But then is it really possible to kiss success each time we set out to attain the same? Do destiny has any role to play or is there any master-stroke to hug success each time we battle out for! I don't find any, nor do I expect any of such stroke to exist. While I strongly believe at times 'defeat' is the utter necessity more so than the 'sweet lullaby of success'. 'How' is the key for a life filled with sole melancholy of joy.

Teachings on failures begin as early as we take birth. As we start to crouch or walk, we fail in first attempts but that never stops us from walking there on. And lest you forget, nobody succeeds in all that he tries at. Not even the finest could been able to carve that niche record! As life unfolds so are the ways of failures. Easy in the beginnings, tough at end; similar to the game you played the other day! What must not change although is our spirit in handling failures. As someone put it - they are slight bends not permanent ends! Don't see failures as hurdles-impossible but try to perceive them as hurdles-to-perfection because that's what they are primarily in everyone's life. We learn walking to perfection by faltering in the beginnings, by hurting ourselves at times. There even are people who have challenged their so called destinies by keep on walking to their goals when odds were stacked high against them. Small, large, extra-large, howsoever mighty it might appear in the beginning, a simple thought like 'we too can excel' could make us explore heights we only imagined the other day! It all is inside there in us waiting for approval, waiting for a push, waiting for your will to raise and start again with new vigor. Furthermore I believe it's how we see and perceive failures that set our path to glory or nothing in particular.

Perception as mentioned earlier is the key while dealing with any amount of failure. One sees failure as barricades while the other one might look up to them as chance to move on to something different, the one he has left the other day while the third one might just perceive them as bubbles that would burst in a day or two and he would try again another day with more energy, more power than he tried any time before. It's all in us to let it bloom like it's ought to be or let it die its immature death the way it's never made to be. Most of our problems are the one' that we can handle smartly provided we look up to them as possible’ and not impossible’ at first place. The reason why they appear every now and then just as we finish dealing with earlier is to provide meaning to our lives and nothing else. Have you ever thought otherwise? What if there had been a possibility of life with no trace of problems? Wouldn't life been much sweeter then? No, in fact life couldn't have got any worse than that! Because failures or problems are the one’ that provide meaning and longevity to our lives. They give us goals to live to, provide paths that leads to perfection, ways that finesse an individual. The 'otherwise' is a life dipped in ambiguity, disorder, meaningless treasure trove; the one we could hardly imagine to live in or fit in at first place.

Don't ever try to see or perceive failure as the ultimate end but try finding loose ends that lead you there or universe' way of guiding and bringing you to a place where you are supposed to travel to, the one which holds magnanimous possibilities, the one which is crafted for your arrival. Remember, failures are stops to rethink, re-plan, refurnish and to brush your cloudy frost-bitten thoughts & ideas and to move forward with new lease of life and vigor. Hope you perceive and attain the same.
May you find way through your failures and wish for jaw-dropping success to be yours. Wish you live the life you are meant to...Good Day. Good Luck!