What women don't want before sex!!!!!
Most women have a
long list of 'don'ts'
that they want their
man to know. So,
instead of second
guessing, just read
this list and read her
mind the next time
you both are getting
intimate.
Sloppy music
Music is the clincher as
you get set to hit the
sack. As you turn
down the lights and
turn on a little mood
music, choose what
you are making your
gal listen to carefully.
What you play may be
an indication about
where the night is
headed. Avoid
anything too girly
(Madonna, Avril
Lavigne, Miley Cyrus)
and do not play music
with clear sexual
overtones ("Let's Get
It On," "Sexual
Healing," "I Wanna Sex
You Up").
Turn off the phone
Have you ever
answered a call mid-
way during sex and
lived to regret it? Turn
your phone off while
getting intimate with
your lady love.
Interruptions can
really put a damper on
your sexual tempo,
and if it is your mom
calling, your girl is
probably putting on
her jacket and getting
ready to leave.
Groping is out
Well, even though you
might want to lay
your hands on your
gal, be recommend
you exercise caution.
Grabbing her boobs,
pinching her ass or
ripping open her
clothes is a big turn
off. Moving randomly
from
body part to body
part is thoroughly
confusing and never
gives your girl a
chance to get into the
mood. Move slowly
from one body part to
the next -- lightly
caressing first, then
with increased
passion.
Begging
Most women have
clearly defined limits,
before the date about
just how how far she
is willing to go, but
men can change their
minds. At the end of
the evening, give her a
passionate kiss to
sweep her off her
feet. This is when she
may just reconsider
going home with you.
If she still isn't
interested and
expresses a clear
discontent, do not
whine or beg. If you
beg, you will never get
a second chance --
ever.
Being in a hurry
Women take a lot of
time to feel sexually
into the moment.
Most women loved
being kissed, touched,
caressed, and more
than two minutes to
reach the big O. So
take time to focus on
her. If you aren't
satisfying her, she
could get frustrated
(or bored) and call it a
night.
Don't keep looking
at the watch
It takes time to get a
woman going. She
needs kissing,
touching, caressing,
and more than two
minutes to reach
orgasm. If you have
moved past the
make-out stage and
the clothes are
coming off, take time
to focus on her. If you
aren't satisfying her
needs, your gal may
just get frustrated
and bored and call it a
night.
Sloppy kissing
It doesn't matter
how hot a dude is, if
he can't kiss well, he
ain't getting past first
base. When you lean in
for the first end-of-
the-date smooch,
remember to control
your tongue. Don't
unnecessarily lick her
teeth, chin, cheeks,
forehead, etc., and try
not to stick it down
her throat. It's a
major turn off for
women. Also, ensure
you have pleasant
breath, bad breath
sucks!
Dull conversation
All women dig
compliments, but too
many "Oh babys" can
mar her mood. Going
over-the-top with
banter is a clear sign
that the conversation
is fake and forced.
Concentrate on being
your natural self. If
things are really
becoming passionate,
don't ask unnecessary
questions: "Do you like
it when I kiss you?"
"Does my hand feel
good on your body?"
Her responses will tell
you if you are
impressing her
enough.
Keep your hands
off when she's not
in the mood
Women get turned
off by men who can't
keep their hands off
them. Do not hand her
a glass of wine, turn
on some music, lower
the lights and then
stick your hand in her
pants. You'll just be
regarded as a horny
dude!
Asking for
permission
Most girls like a man
who loves taking
charge, so when you
ask for permission
every step of the
way you come across
as a weak wimp.
Asking her "May I
please kiss you?" at
the end of a date, or
"Are you
OK?" when kissing is a
major dampner.
Rather analyse the
situation; if she's
really into it, be a man
and take the plunge.
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